@enduser Psychological: of, affecting, or arising in the mind; related to the mental and emotional state of a person.
Assault: a strong verbal attack.; or attack or bombard (someone or the senses) with something undesirable or unpleasant.
Imprint: a lasting impression or effect.
In the definitions I provide, I am going with the specific dictionary entries that fit the context of your post.
At first, in the paragraph where you say “They need to be imprinted on,” it seems that you are advocating exposure of TYT and OP’s ideas and values to “imprint” them on OP’s aunt, but you aren’t. You are literally telling OP to become a linguistic shogun.
Linguistic: relating to language or linguistics.
Shogun: the title applied to the chief military commanders from about the 8th century a.d. to the end of the 12th century, then applied to the hereditary officials who governed Japan, with the emperor as nominal ruler, until 1868, when the shogunate was terminated and the ruling power was returned to the emperor.
War: a state of competition, conflict, or hostility between different people or groups.
Immediately before you tell OP to become a linguistic shogun, you claim “Women don’t naturally pick up the war mentality that men seem to grasp like second nature.”, making it pretty clear that you expect OP to imprint on OP’s in a war-like manner. Then two of the books you suggest for reading center around the topics of war tactics, martial arts, and “the way of the sword”, reinforcing the idea that you want OP to imprint on her aunt in a war-like manner. I do not think one can interpret your post as anything except imprinting on someone else in a war-like manner, or essentially psychologically assaulting someone.
Slanderous: (of a spoken statement) false and malicious.
Question: a sentence worded or expressed so as to elicit information.
Most questions, by their nature, cannot be slanderous, because they usually lack a statement. If my question infers that it seems that I believe that you do not want me to bring facts, legitimate research, and logical reasoning with my arguments, that is my right to do. You do not instill confidence to me in your position by outright dismissing the article I used as an example. In every post you made so far, I find it very hard to believe that your ideas are based upon fact, research, or logical reasoning, so I am not actually sure you know what you mean by “Then do your own research.”